There’s woman around 30 who he would like to ask out, but he’s feeling slightly hesitant since it still seems a little taboo for men to date (and marry) older women.
I told him I didn’t think there was any problem with it—what do you think?
Of course, the wider the age gap, the more both individuals need to be aware of factors that could impact and challenge their relationship. Women lose their fertility as they age, with 35 being the number most experts throw out as the year fertility begins to significantly decline.
That doesn’t mean a woman can’t get pregnant for the first time in her late 30s and 40s—plenty do—but expectations around child-bearing are important factors to consider for both partners.
And by that, I don’t mean “you won’t ever have financial trouble,” rather, when you do have issues, he’ll probably be stable enough from maturity and that he won’t freak out.during our dating season, I realized it was coming and started giggling over it, even then.It’s definitely fair to say that my dear man was warned, so I don’t feel even the tiniest bit bad about it.our first public appearance was in a blog article we published on the Tapestry Blog about dating for seniors titled “9 Things You Didn’t Know About Dating for 55 ”.The article shared some of the interesting lessons we had learned about dating for seniors from a closed trial we had been running in Northern California, and asked people to let us know if they wanted to be involved in a more expanded trial.